The fact that you have a difficult time doing thingsthat other people can complete with ease doesn’tmake you inadequate. It doesn’t make youincapable or weak. And it doesn’t make you afailure. It makes you human. The truth is thateveryone struggles with something. No matter how happy or well-adjusted a person may seem,we all have fears that hold us back. Despite howput together someone may seem on the outside,no one is perfect, and that’s okay. Whether youhave a difficult time being social, talking on thephone, becoming independent, using your voice, entering a relationship, connecting with others,individuating from your family, or getting out ofbed each morning to face the world — know thatit’s okay. And know that despite your struggle,you are capable, you are talented, you areimportant, and you are enough.